OurTime
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OurTime is the dedicated 50-plus platform from Match Group, the company behind Match.com, Plenty of Fish, and many other dating apps. Unlike the general-audience apps it owns, OurTime was designed specifically for older adults who want to meet peers in their age bracket. The platform's philosophy is more about openness and speed than deep compatibility testing. Its positioning suggests the app is for people still out living their lives, not checking off a dating checklist. The user base skews slightly younger than SilverSingles, with more users in their 50s and early 60s, and the atmosphere tends to be more casual about meeting, whether for dates, companionship, or something more serious.
OurTime's matching approach is straightforward and browsable. When you sign up, you create a profile with photos and basic information: age, location, interests, body type, smoking status, drinking habits, income level if you choose to share it, and what you're looking for in a match. The app then shows you profiles of people in your area and lets you like or message them. There's no lengthy personality questionnaire; it's a faster, more instinctive process. You can use filters to narrow results by age range, location radius, interests, body type, or relationship goals. The app's browse feature lets you scroll through people actively, or you can wait for suggested matches to appear based on your criteria. This appeals to people who want to take charge of their search rather than wait for an algorithm to curate everything for them. Many users appreciate the control and speed.
The free version lets you create a profile, view who has viewed you, see suggested matches, and browse other profiles with basic information. However, sending messages requires a paid subscription. Receiving messages is also gated, meaning even if someone sends you a message while you have the free version, you won't see it until you upgrade. This monetization pattern is common across dating apps and does encourage faster conversion to paid membership. Premium membership removes message restrictions and adds features like seeing who has liked you, the ability to re-highlight or boost your profile in search results to show up more often, video chat capability with other premium members, and priority in the matching algorithm. Pricing is structured across multiple commitment lengths. A 12-month subscription runs roughly $12.99 per month, a six-month plan is around $15.14 per month, a three-month plan is approximately $24.99 per month, and a one-week trial is available for $19.99. Like most apps, longer commitments have better per-month rates, and all plans are charged upfront. The one-week option is particularly useful for testing whether you like the platform before committing to a longer or more expensive plan.
Cancellation is handled through your account settings and can be done at any time without penalty. The site does not publish a detailed cancellation policy, but there is no refund for unused time on multi-month plans. A non-refundable processing fee is added at checkout, similar to other paid dating apps. Most users do renew after their initial term, especially if they have made connections or scheduled dates. The platform's retention is strong because matches and conversations tend to happen relatively quickly, which keeps people engaged and willing to stay subscribed.
On safety and verification, OurTime does not require photo ID or identity verification. Profiles go through moderation for offensive photos or explicit content, but there is no guarantee that the person in the photo is who they claim to be. Romance scams and catfishing do occur, as they do on any platform without mandatory verification requirements. The site has a reporting feature for suspicious profiles and inappropriate behavior, and users can block people and control who can message them. Given the age group using OurTime, the platform has been targeted by scammers who know that older adults sometimes have more disposable income or may be more trusting of relationship prospects. Standard precautions are essential: meet in public places for first dates, do not share financial information early, verify people through video chat before investing significant time, and be skeptical of sob stories, requests for money, or pressure to move off the platform quickly. OurTime does have a community of genuine users, but vigilance is necessary as with any dating platform.
The mobile app has been consistently praised by users for being more polished, intuitive, and responsive than the website. Most people download the app and rarely use the desktop version. The app allows for push notifications when someone messages or likes you, which keeps the experience dynamic and real-time rather than email-based. The UX is generally considered modern and easy to navigate, even for people less comfortable with technology. The website is functional but feels less refined and updates less frequently. App loading times are reasonable, and crashes are rare. Overall, OurTime feels more contemporary in design and responsiveness compared to competitors.
A useful feature is the ability to send a wink or like without committing to a full message. This is a low-pressure way to express interest and see if it's mutual before anyone has to write. Many users over 50 appreciate this subtle approach to initiating contact. You can also answer profile questions and add interests to give others a better sense of your personality and values. The video chat feature in premium membership is helpful for a quick face-to-face verification before meeting in person, though it is not as polished as dedicated video apps like Zoom or FaceTime.
OurTime is ideal for people who want a straightforward, mobile-first experience, value speed and immediate access to a large pool of 50-plus singles, and prefer browsing and liking over algorithmic personality matching. The ease of use and quick matching make it suitable for people dipping their toes into online dating after years or decades away from it. If you are comfortable with a faster, less personality-driven approach and want to maximize your options rather than minimize them, OurTime delivers well. The app's primary strength is simplicity and volume of potential matches. The downside is that with less structured matching, you may encounter more incompatibility or less serious members. For someone who is ready to actively date, doesn't want to answer a 20-minute personality test, and enjoys browsing rather than receiving selected matches, OurTime is a pragmatic and effective choice.